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Lindsay is a recent Virginia Commonwealth University graduate who suffered severe and debilitating complications following surgery for Crohn's disease, resulting in quadruple amputations. Initially hospitalized on August 3, 2007 she remained in intensive care until early December, when she was moved to Johns Hopkins in Baltimore to begin rehabilitative therapy. She has since returned to Richmond to continue her therapy and recuperation among friends and family. Lindsay's medical expenses far exceed insurance coverage. Love of Lindsay has been created by friends of Lindsay to accept donations to help cover these costs. Donations of all sizes are deeply appreciated. Thank you for your kindness and support.

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1. Tax-Deductible donations through PayPal

All donations made via PayPal are tax-deductible and accepted on Lindsay's behalf through Easter Seals of Virginia. PayPal deducts a 3% fee for this service; 97% of your tax-deductible online donation will go towards Lindsay's medical and rehabilitation expenses.

2. Donations by check through the mail

Love of Lindsay
P.O. Box 15041
Richmond, VA 23227

Make check payable to Lindsay Aronson Ess. 100% of donations made by check will go towards Lindsay's medical and rehabilitation expenses. These donations are not currently tax deductible but stay tuned — we are working on this!

Notes to Lindsay

Feel free to use this post as a place to leave (public) comments and notes to Lindsay. Some of our news posts will change or be removed as they become outdated, but we’ll leave this post up as a place for you to share and say hello.

149 Comments »

  1. oh Lou, I love you…I’m working on trying to get a fund raiser going here and I am working on coming down.
    Please stay strong and remember that you are a true Angel and although I can not know why you have had to go through all of this I have faith that God has plans for you.
    I hope that you are holding strong to that.
    Please know that you can call me anytime day or night.
    Again Lindsay, I really love you.
    Kim

    Comment by kim — September 19, 2007 @ 9:03 am
  2. Dear Judith and Lindsay,

    I cannot imagine your pain or the challenges you are facing. I can only show my love and support for your family right here. I will pray daily — as I hope that you do — and I will tell you that I believe that God gives us amazing strength and resiliance when we require it. I lost my 23 year old son three years ago and crazy as this may sound, terrible tragedies, nightmare circumstances, often make us stonger, emotionally deeper, and more able to feel for others and show our love, prayers, support, and yes — dollars when they are needed.

    Lindsay, you are beautiful. And now you are no less beautiful. Please allow yourself to feel what you feel, take the time that you need, and never let anyone tell you that you are lucky to be alive and that it is time for you to move on. We all have different paces. Respect your own pace to accept things and to heal. You are still the beautiful girl that you were and I promise you that one day that beauty will radiate so brightly that you will blind people when you enter a room. God Bless you and all of your family.

    Suzi Smith

    Comment by Suzi Smith — September 26, 2007 @ 4:57 pm
  3. Hi Lindsay,

    I don’t know you, but I have heard so many wonderful things about you through our mutual friend, Kim Giammaria. Please know you are in the thoughts and prayers of many people whom you haven’t even met!
    Hugs,
    Julie

    Comment by Julie — October 3, 2007 @ 6:12 pm
  4. Lindsay, you are in our thoughts and prayers. *HUGS* We’re constantly thinking of you and your family as you go through this difficult time. Please let us know if you need anything at all.

    Comment by Sara — October 4, 2007 @ 3:39 am
  5. Hey Lindsay! Just wanted you to know you are in our thoughts and prayers in Virginia Beach, our mutual friend Vanessa keeps us informed and we pray for you and your family everyday. We all hope to help in any way we can!

    Comment by Jesse — October 5, 2007 @ 5:01 pm
  6. Dear Lindsay,

    You don’t know who I am, but my brother is a good friend of Lauren’s, who went to fashion school with you. When I heard about what happened, I just couldn’t believe it. No one should have to go through what you did, and I just wished that there was something I could do for you, or somehow bring you peace or understanding. I can’t give you answers, but I just want you to know that there are people out there who don’t even know you that care. I will be at the benefit concert with a friend. I know one day you will find peace, and maybe understand why this all happened. You are beautiful and strong. You are in my thoughts.

    Sincerely,
    Diane Y.

    Comment by Diane — October 6, 2007 @ 4:56 pm
  7. Dear Lindsay,
    I know we don’t know each, but want you to know that I care about you even if we don’t know one another. I am so terribly sorry for what you are going through and just want to give you a warm big hug. My prayers are with you, and believe that you are a strong beautiful lady.
    My wonderful Kim has told me such beautiful things about you, and want you to know that we are all thinking about you.
    Giselle xoxo

    Comment by Giselle — October 6, 2007 @ 8:40 pm
  8. Baby Girl, I know this painful, I know that you are going through much more than any of us could even imagine…i want to take away all the hurt and pain so badly…..iloveyou lu, please know how much we love you…u are in are hearts so deeply…….

    Comment by kim — October 6, 2007 @ 9:05 pm
  9. Hey Sweetie!!
    I don’t know if you remember me, I am friends with Justin & Mehs. I just wanted to give you a little inspiration , and strength to win this battle. I have a six year old little boy who was born with a disease called Biliary Atresia. Before his third birthday he had already been through two liver transplants , open heart surgery, and numerous other procedures. He is now in kindergarten, goes to Taekwondo everyday after school and is doing amazing. He will be immunosupressed for the rest of his life so we do have to be a little cautious of germs, but he is actually healthier than the majority of kids his age. I have witnessed many miracles while I lived in the hospital for almost two years straight, & I know you will make it through just fine.
    Everything happens for a reason.

    All our love & prayers are with you,
    Jasmine & Kyle

    Comment by Jasmine Moseley — October 7, 2007 @ 10:54 am
  10. Just wanted to say Im thinking of you all the time. I know you will get through this and please be strong. I love you Linds.

    Comment by Janet — October 7, 2007 @ 11:05 am
  11. Lins,
    I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers everyday!
    I miss you so much girl! And I’m coming to visit as soon as I can….I know your strong so hang in there!!
    Love you Miss you!!!
    ~Aims~

    Comment by Amy — October 8, 2007 @ 11:51 am
  12. Lindsey,

    Just wanted to let you know that Vanessa has kept me posted. We are all thinking of you. The old school crew (John, Jess, Kinsey) got together one day to celebrate the good hearted person you are and I wanted you to know that we all hope you are doing better.

    Comment by Nate Douglas — October 8, 2007 @ 1:31 pm
  13. Dear Lindsey~

    We’ve only met each other briefly in the past through our good friend Vanessa, but I remember those moments and think of you often. Vanessa keeps me constantly updated on what is happening with you, as I know how much you mean to her. Please know that I believe in the power of your spirit as I know it is rich with ALL of the people who so strongly love you and are there to support you. I pray for you and your path to recovery to occur with the time and path that God has set out for you. You are in my heart.
    Love,
    Kristin

    Comment by Kristin — October 9, 2007 @ 6:39 am
  14. Lindsay,
    I know it’s been a long time. But I wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. You are such a beautiful and wonderful person. I know that there is a bigger plan for you than this. I know our words can only solace you so much. But with your firm will and God’s strength this will soon be a distant memory for you.
    Isaiah 41:10
    “Do not fear, for I am with you… I will strengthen you and help you.”

    Comment by Jessica Connolly — October 9, 2007 @ 7:14 am
  15. Hi Lindsay,
    You might not even remember me but we befriended one another at VCU. I had just started working on my 2nd degree in fashion and was feeling a little out of the loop and very out of place, but you were totally warm and friendly and not a young 18yo–which was exactly what I needed at that moment. I never finished that 2nd degree so we sort of lost touch after that, but I will always be thankful for your friendship. As a VCU Music graduate, I’m so happy to see that event scheduled for you. I know my fellow music people will come out and support you and your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Comment by Patricia Pineda — October 12, 2007 @ 7:51 am
  16. Hi, Lindsay
    My name is Maria and my sister, Terri Murphy Simpson plays in the Baby Huey band with your father. She told me about your Crohn’s condition. I also graduated from VCU and I was diagnosed with Crohn’s my junior year. I’ve had Crohn’s for twenty one years now and I understand what you’re going through.I just want to let you know that my thoughts and prayers go out to you. Just remember you’re not alone and God will give you peace and strength.

    Comment by Maria Murphy — October 17, 2007 @ 4:01 pm
  17. Lindsay,

    I’ve never met you, but I read the article in the Richmond paper today and my heart really goes out to you and your family. Sometimes life doesn’t seem fair, and sometimes unfortunate things happen to good people, but I can tell just by the few pictures that I saw that you have such a great spirit inside of you. Don’t ever lose that- we can lose so many things in this world but as long as we are breathing we can determine our own happiness. Take comfort in those that know and love you, and know that you are one of God’s children and He will always love you. I wish you the best as you recover and continue to show the world just how strong you are inside.

    Comment by Stephen — October 21, 2007 @ 6:27 am
  18. Your story touched me deeply. My sister suffered the devastating effects of severe sepsis from MRSA and it was through the support and prayers of others that gave us the strength we need. I want you and your family to know that my daily thoughts, love, and prayers are with you. God bless you and give you strength.

    Comment by Debbie — October 21, 2007 @ 3:30 pm
  19. Dear Lindsay,

    I know we do not know one another, but I was deeply moved when I read your story in the Richmond Times Dispatch yesterday. I felt compelled to write to you and try to help in any way that I could. It was obvious to me that you are an extraordinary young woman and that you are loved deeply by your family and friends. Please know that along with them, there are countless others who are thinking of you and praying for your recovery. Stay strong. God Bless you.

    Comment by Karen — October 22, 2007 @ 6:48 am
  20. Dear Lindsay,
    A mutual friend shared your story with me. You are in my thoughts and prayers daily.

    Comment by mary nell — October 22, 2007 @ 7:06 am
  21. Dear Lindsay- We dont know each other, but I wanted to tell you that you are never alone. Many people are thinking of you and praying for you. And God will never leave your side.
    Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.
    James 1:12 Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial…he will receive the crown of life that God has promised those that love him.

    Comment by Liza Pettingill — October 22, 2007 @ 8:10 am
  22. I read the story about you in the RTD yesterday and I just had to write and let you know that I am thinking of you and praying for you and your family. Your strength and light came through so much in the article and I am so truly touched even though we have never met. I will carry your story with me every single day and do my best to live my life in gratitude in your honor. I wish you all the best in your recovery. God bless.

    Comment by Kimberly V. — October 22, 2007 @ 10:25 am
  23. Hey Lindsay,

    You and your family are in my prayers. I look forward to hearing of your progress. If for any reason you need my assistance with anything, fell free to contact me. Keep strong and don’t give up.

    Comment by Keith — October 22, 2007 @ 10:44 am
  24. Hey Pretty Lady- We gave many memories back from our Bailey’s days- you have always been one of my favorite people, Anyway- just wanted to tell you I have been thinking of you, and praying for you and your family, Please get well soon! Love you!!!!! XoXo

    Comment by Shelby Pritchett — October 22, 2007 @ 11:42 am
  25. We were deeply moved by your story in the Richmond Times Dispatch. We immediately wanted to help in any way we could. You are a beautiful person who obviously has an extraordinary support system in your family and friends, and even complete strangers. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers daily. I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason. As hard as that is to accept sometimes, just know that God has a plan for you. Stay strong. God Bless you and your family.

    Comment by Lisa & Wayne F. — October 22, 2007 @ 11:50 am
  26. Dear Lindsay -

    I have come to know you indirectly through my mother, who was your professor at VCU. She thinks so highly of you and tells everyone how amazing you are. My boyfriend and I have been tracking your progress through her, and we are excited to show our support for you at Tuesday’s fundraiser. We hope to one day meet this beautiful, athletic, kind, generous, and VERY loved woman known as Lu-Lu!! I will be running the Marine Corps Marathon in DC with big “Love of Lindsay” racing slogans in your honor. Our family is behind you all the way, and we keep you and your family in our thoughts daily.

    Comment by Lindsay — October 22, 2007 @ 12:07 pm
  27. I just wanted to tell you that you will be in my preyers, stay strong.

    Comment by Tariq Badawi — October 22, 2007 @ 1:57 pm
  28. Lindsay,

    I want you to know that I am still thinking of you, and praying for you daily. I hope that when you feel up to visitors I can come see you. I am working on some things that will hopefully benefit you with some other fashion students.

    Your strength and spirit are an inspiration to me and many others. Please don’t give up ever! You are a beautiful person inside and out with so much ahead of you.

    Jess

    Comment by Jessica Nelson — October 22, 2007 @ 3:02 pm
  29. Linds,
    It’s been quite sometime. I want to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. This entire community is supporting you and anxiously awaiting good news of your progress. I can’t help but smile when I think of the great memories you and I have made along the way. I can’t wait until I can give you a HUG! I hope you know that you have many people in this world who love you and only want the best for you. I will be at the concert tomorrow night thinking of you! xoxox,

    Comment by Lauren Neal — October 22, 2007 @ 8:10 pm
  30. Lindsay-
    We’ve never met, but I want you to know that my family and I are praying for you and your family as you face these seemingly endless challenges.

    Whether you know many of us who have left you notes or not really doesn’t matter. What matters is that you know just how many people are reaching out to you with love, enegery and strength. We’re praying for you, we’re cheering you on as your move forward, and we’re here to help however we can.

    Comment by Kember A-R. Forcke — October 23, 2007 @ 8:41 am
  31. Lindsay,

    From one Crohn’s patient to another I wish nothing but for you to find happiness in the future. Crohn’s runs in my family (my mother has had it for over forty years and I have had it for about six) so when I read the article about your situation in the Times Dispatch it broke my heart. Last November I had the same surgery, and afterwards I was severely sick. My GI doctor did little to help me and that was when I took the situation into my own hands by seeking out new medical help. Long story short, I am on a radical treatment plan and have significantly improved but will never be “cured”. I believe everything happens for a reason, and possibly you can use your fashion skills to create a line of clothing for amputees. If you ever need support or someone to email about anything, please keep me in mind.

    Best wishes,
    Heather

    Comment by Heather — October 23, 2007 @ 10:14 am
  32. hey lindsay

    i know firsthand how a terrible medical condition can affect you and the ones around you. all i can say is to stay strong and any emotions you feel right now are okay. god bless you

    Comment by jason — October 23, 2007 @ 10:51 am
  33. Lindsay,

    I just wanted to let you know that i’m here for you. With so many people by your side that love you so much to help you through this your going to be alright. If you ever need anything, to talk, a friend to go to the movies, anything at all just call me 703-801-0577, you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. Love Rocco

    Comment by Rocco Marmo — October 23, 2007 @ 1:30 pm
  34. Hi, Lindsay! I just wanted you to know that your story is getting out and you are starting to have people all over the world thinking of you and praying for you.

    Your survival is an incredible miracle and this miracle makes me believe you are someone special who is on this earth for a reason–probably even more than one!…Thank you for hanging in there. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

    Lots of love from strangers coming your way! :)

    Comment by Carol — October 23, 2007 @ 4:31 pm
  35. Yo Lins! I can’t wait until I can visit you. We can gossip and bake cookies.

    Comment by Shelley — October 24, 2007 @ 6:30 am
  36. hey Lindsay…. I just wanted you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Kelley and I have been keeping up with your progress and we hope and pray that you get better real soon. Brian and I agree that the monkey just isn’t the same without you to pick on.. ;) Stay strong and don’t give up… you have a lot of people pulling for you!

    Comment by Paul Hartsoe — October 24, 2007 @ 8:11 am
  37. Hey Lindsay,

    I haven’t been in touch with you in quite some time. Rishi and I were at your concert last night (along with as many people as they could possibly fit in that building). I’m glad to hear you’re doing better, and look forward to seeing you again when you’re completely recovered.

    Hang in there. You have a lot of people thinking of you.

    - Morgan

    Comment by Morgan Porter — October 24, 2007 @ 12:03 pm
  38. Hi Lindsay,
    My name is Madeline and I am four. My grandmommy is helping me type this. She told me about you and I saw your pictures on the website. I have never met you, but I am going to draw a picture for you tomorrow and send it to you. I am also going to send something from my piggy bank to help you pay the hospital. I am going to talk to God about you in my prayers and He always hears me. My grandmommy said so. I love you and I hope my picture will make you smile. Love, Madeline

    Comment by madeline — October 24, 2007 @ 3:37 pm
  39. Dear Lindsay,

    My dear I do not know you and I have only recently learned of the really difficult time you have had. However, I am a long time musical associate of your Dad’s. Regrettably, I could not be in attendance at last night’s concert at VCU.

    Although the ocasions have been all too infrequent, I have always enjoyed playing with and listening to your Dad play guitar. He is a terrifically talented guy! Mike has always been soooo supportive of my music. I know that you will be okay because your Dad (and family) will be there with you providing that same strong support.

    God Bless you and your family as you go through the recovery process.

    My family and I will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

    Peace and wishing you a speedy recovery,

    Joe Sarver - bass

    Comment by Joe Sarver — October 24, 2007 @ 4:44 pm
  40. Lindsay,
    I don’t know you but my son takes guitar lessons from your dad. Both he and my husband attended the benefit for you at vcu and I wished that I had attended as well. I have had m.s. since I was 25 and can relate a bit to expecting your life to be one way and having to adjust everything to be another way. You have given me strength by simply reading your story and seeing your picture. There are literally people all over the world who are praying for you and I tell your story everywhere. Stay strong girl!!!
    christine

    Comment by christine barry — October 25, 2007 @ 9:47 am
  41. Linsay, I am one of many whom you have never met, but I have been keeping up with your progress through my life-partner Mike Etto. I am SO glad to hear of your positive progress of late! The concert was wonderful, as you will see, and the standing ovation for you at the end moved me deeply. There must be a greater purpose for your ordeal and for your life to come! I look forward to meeting you, and send continued best wishes!

    Comment by David Nelson — October 25, 2007 @ 10:24 am
  42. Hey Linds!
    I just wanted to let you know that I’m praying for you. Your concert was beautiful and I cant wait till you see all the people who came that love, support and care about you. There have been so many people that have expressed their love, compassion and have been moved by you. They know what an amazing, wonderful, strong and loving person you are. I’m so glad that you are doing well and I cant wait till I can come visit! :)

    Comment by Mai-Lyn Yang — October 26, 2007 @ 8:40 am
  43. Hi Lindsay,

    Just wanted to let you know that i’ve been thinking and praying for you and your family. Its been a long time since we actually hung out together. When i found out about this I was heartbroken, but I know you are a fighter and going to pull through!!! thanks for being a good friend although we havent hung out as much. I just wanted to let you know that I am thinking about you!!!

    Take care and I hope to see you soon:-)

    xoxo

    Comment by Sheronda Peoples — October 26, 2007 @ 9:30 am
  44. Lindsay -

    Through a wonderful friend who’s already sent you a note (A.R. Forke), I have learned of your great difficulties and challenges, and my heart goes out to you.

    I’m a quadruple congenital amputee, and was missing my limbs at birth. Following minor surgeries to remove a few random toes and thumbs:), I was fitted w/four prostheses and was in regular school by age 5. I’ve kept up, and sometimes, it was difficult.

    But, life is good and has been for me, thanks to my wonderful childhood family. I went to Georgetown Univ, law school in Kansas, practiced law in the KC area, and later became a nonprofit CEO. Today, I’m back to the law as a partner in a DC law firm, and specialize in working w/companies on their disability, technology and employment issues. I am married to a most wonderful, beautiful woman, and we have 2 children, both married, and 4 grandsons (ages 6,5,3 and 2). My disability is very much a part of my identity and she sees me for the real person I am.

    All this is to say, I cannot begin to imagine what you must be feeling and wondering about your future. Just do not doubt there are many, many wonderful, beautiful people out there to be a major part of your life. People are extremely kind, helpful and more than willing to assist us, employ us, serve us, and befriend us. Only a few misguided souls will be distant to you. You will enjoy the continued friendships of most you know now, and you will meet awesome people in the future. And, every (ok, maybe not every) dream you’ve had will hopefully come true.

    If ever I can assist you, guide you, offer some support to you, I hope you will call on me.

    I wish you well, and I know you are in good care with many many friends and your wonderful family.

    You are in my thoughts and prayers. Be well!

    John D. Kemp

    Comment by John D. Kemp — October 26, 2007 @ 2:00 pm
  45. Hey Girl,
    I just recently learned of what has happened last night and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I know we’ve lost contact over the past couple of years but you have and will always be in my heart. From our Baileys days to our many a phone convo’s about boy’s and beyond. Man, your spirit is so beautiful. If you need anything, anything at all please call me @ 937-0114. I love you girl.

    Love,

    Cam

    PS: You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

    Comment by Camillia Heade — October 27, 2007 @ 10:08 am
  46. Lindsay
    Although you do not know me,I read your story and wanted to reach out to you. I am about the same age as you and I have Crohn’s also. I was diagnosed when I was about 12 yrs old and had the surgery when I was 13. I have been thinking of you and have said many prayers for you. You and I seem like we have alot in common. I have a dog named Sadie as well. Please stay strong and keep pushing forward!
    MC

    Comment by Mary-Carter Snidow Pitts — October 27, 2007 @ 3:33 pm
  47. Hey Lindsay,

    I read your story in the Times-Dispatch; it must be a difficult time for you and your family. You are in the minds and prayers of so many in the youth group at my church. I read your story and figured there must be something I could do to help. The youth group has decided to have a neighborhood bake sale and collect donations. Also throughout the next few months we will keep on raising money for you in different ways.

    May God be with you and your loved ones,let me know if there is anything that we can do to help!

    Heather

    Comment by Heather — October 29, 2007 @ 5:18 pm
  48. To Lindsay and family,
    There are no words that can justify or truly explain what you are going through and the challenges still up ahead. The article touched Patti and me moving us to reach out to you and your family. What we can say and truly believe is that God loves you. One piece of evidence of that fact is the wonderful family and friends who are around you and love you. Even with this terrible thing that has happened to you, there is hope. My sister, after a severe car accident over 20 years ago, became a parapalegic and in a wheelchair for the rest of her life. Since then she and her huband have lived a full life together, have had two children and she is working fulltime as Director of Marketing. Patti and I are mailing you a donation to assist with costs and a DVD which at a time I hope will be an inspiration to you.God bless you and your family, and fill you with strength and courage.

    Chris & Patti Perry

    Comment by Chris & Patti Perry — October 30, 2007 @ 5:05 am
  49. Hi Lindsay,
    My name is Mackenzie and I’ve never actually had the pleasure of meeting you but I’ve heard so many wonderful things about you from my friend Vanessa Hirsch. I just wanted you to know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers and I think about you alot. I am praying for a wonderful recovery, be strong everyone here is here for you and will always be touched by your story!
    God Bless,
    Mackenzie

    Comment by Mackenzie Snyder — October 30, 2007 @ 6:54 am
  50. Hey Linds,
    It’s Cam…just wanted to tell you that I think about you everyday, countless times though out and I love and miss you very much.I know I wrote before but I just wanted you to know that.Hugs and kisses.
    Love,
    Cam :)

    Comment by Camillia Heade — October 31, 2007 @ 2:26 pm
  51. Hey Lindsay - I’m a VCU alumni from 1988′ and I read your story today when a coworker of mine was diagnosed with a staph infection - another coworker told me about your amazing story. You are truly an incredible woman and I’m proud that you are from VCU. I love your logo and website. You can do great things with this type of spirit and support and with God who strengthens you. You obviously already have in these few short months. Be strong and you can still go out and change the world with your beautiful smile, serving heart, and wonderful family - no one will be able to stop you. I pray for your health and final recovery from this tragedy and pray for your victory. God bless you and keep you and don’t ever let them get you down darlin.
    Love,
    Tracy :-)

    Comment by Tracy Collins — November 2, 2007 @ 7:52 am
  52. I just wanted to say that I have had Crohn’s disease for 25 years, have had 8 bowel surgeries, an ileostomy for 12 years, 4 collapsed lungs, short bowel syndrome(have only 6 ft of intestine left), have a port a cath with daily TPN to survive, and had severe sepsis this past June that luckily I survived OK. My heart goes out to Lindsay and her family, I have a good idea of what they are going through. I would also like to offer myself as a means of support-if you need someone to talk to who has been there-please contact me through my email. I have also been a nurse for 12 years and counsel people through my job. Please don’t hesitate to contact me. Please know my prayers are with you and hope that Lindsay gets better everyday. Please keep your minds in good spirits, it helps the body heal.

    Comment by Jennifer Hopsicker — November 3, 2007 @ 4:47 am
  53. LINDSAY:)
    I miss you very much. I think about you everyday and continue to pray the Lord will give you strength to make it through your journey. You are loved so much by so many people, do not forget that!
    Anything you need, you know I AM there for YOU
    love you and miss your beautiful SMILE:)
    amber pinigis

    Comment by Amber Pinigis — November 4, 2007 @ 10:56 pm
  54. Hello Lindsay and Kev,

    I just wanted to let you know that you are always in my prayers. May the lord give you all the strenght you need.
    Greetings from Germany

    Jessy

    Comment by Jessica Locke — November 5, 2007 @ 9:19 am
  55. Hey Sweetie!!! Its your fiancee! I just wanna tell you how amazing I think you are and how excited I am about our future together. As we maintain our faith in God, he will deliver the rest. I love you more than anything in this world! See you soon!

    Comment by Kevin Gipson — November 6, 2007 @ 10:55 am
  56. Lindsay,
    You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You are in my thoughts and prayers every day. There are so many people loving and thinking of you all the time. I am there for you if you need anything and I know you will make it through this. xoxo

    Comment by Katie LaRue — November 6, 2007 @ 6:19 pm
  57. Lindsay,
    I do not know you but I want you to know that I have been praying for you day in and day out since I first saw the article in the times dispatch. You have the most beautiful smile and getting through this is going to be hard but keep on smiling. You are in all of our thoughts and prayers!

    Comment by Bobby — November 7, 2007 @ 4:03 pm
  58. Lindsay -

    I am a former VCU Fashion student and proud Graduate. I also directed the VCU fashion show my senior year way back in 1993! I heard about your tough battle through a fellow Alumni and Karen Guthrie Videtic. I can not even begin to comprehend the challenging road that lies ahead for you. But from what I have read and the outpouring of support you have received thus far it appears that you are a very special person. You clearly have touched many people in a short time. I hope that you can gain strength and courage through the support and love of your family, friends and people you do not even know but who wish you well. I would like to offer some kind of wisdom or consoling words - but I am afraid all I can offer is my hope that you continue to get better and stronger. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless.

    Sincerely,

    Kieran Donahue

    BFA Fashion Merchandising
    Class of 1993

    Comment by Kieran Donahue — November 7, 2007 @ 6:16 pm
  59. Hi Lindsay,

    My wife, daughter and I were visiting my older daughter who teaches at UVA and VCU.
    I read the article in the Richmond paper while in Charlottesville.
    We want to send our best wishes and prayers to you and your family from New Hampshire.

    Sincerely,

    Gregg,Linda and Amy Sargent

    Comment by Gregg Sargent — November 8, 2007 @ 1:30 pm
  60. Just checkin in on you girl…hugs and kisses.

    Love Cam :D

    Comment by Camillia Heade — November 9, 2007 @ 4:36 pm
  61. Hey Lindsay,
    I read your story,and was deeply moved by your strength,your character,the people that care about you,and what you have accomplished so far,in your young life.I know you will get through this
    and live a full rewarding life.I am pulling for you,and will be sending a
    donation soon.I was at the VCU Massey cancer center (colon cancer)and I tell
    you what:love and support from family and friends,mean everything.Getting a letter from a 4 yr old(comment #38)would
    make my day.I smiled when I read it,and
    I bet you did ,too.Just what the doctor ordered!Best of luck to you.Life is not
    fair,and you did not deserve this,but I
    know you will be OK.Sincerely,Charlie

    Comment by Charlie — November 10, 2007 @ 11:59 am
  62. Lindsay,

    It’s been a couple years since we last spoke, but I want you to know that I am still here for you should you want or need ANYTHING. I have been thinking about and praying for you and your family ever since Camillia shared the news with me and I will continue to do so for I know that it is truly the most important thing I can do.
    Stay strong and keep your faith in God because He “…is able to do so much more than we can ever ask for, or even think of: to God be the glory…”

    Comment by Lindsey Barr — November 10, 2007 @ 12:17 pm
  63. Hi Linds-
    Sorry it took us so long to get on here. Derrek and I are here together thinking of you. Your concert was beautiful,and you are so lucky to have so many people that love you. I will, of course, be back to visit soon, cant wait til you are home and things can begin to return to normal. Stay strong girl, like I know you will. Love you lots.
    -Mimers and Derrek-

    Comment by mimi — November 11, 2007 @ 8:50 pm
  64. Dear Lindsay - my son was diagnosed w/ Crohn’s when he was 9 years old. My husband and I were relieved because we were worried it was cancer, so we couldn’t understand why family & friends thought IBD was so bad. My son then spent a year in & out of hospitals because he was allergic to everything but steroids. At one point he was on a no fat, no lactose, no salt, no gluten diet. He is now 18 & going to VCU. I just would like for you to know that you are not alone & things will get better. A big hug, cheers - Norma

    Comment by Norm — November 12, 2007 @ 1:03 pm
  65. Lindsay,

    Even though we didn’t keep in touch alot through the years I’ve known you, you somehow always seemed to be in my thoughts from time to time. I miss seeing you at 3 Monkeys and I’ll never forget your Bailey’s days. It seems like just yesterday I was helping you move…ummm…like 5 houses down haha. Whenever I saw a rickshaw, I always did a double take to see if it was you. It just pains me to think things like this can happen to people as kind and good hearted as yourself. I’m sure you’ll pull through just fine and I want you to know you will be in my thoughts always. I would like to come see you when you feel up to having visitors. My number is 804-852-4192 if you EVER need anything don’t hesitate to call…I would love to hear fom you. Best wishes to you and your family.
    -Jason Horowitz

    Comment by Jason Horowitz — November 13, 2007 @ 8:34 pm
  66. Hi Lindsey ~ I wanted to say “Hello” and hope things are going well. You have been in my thoughts and prayers and I hope God will hear them. If there is anything I can do for you (and your mother) I would love to help. Even if it’s running an errand or cooking a favorite dish again I would be happy to help.

    Keep up the good work! And Abby and I hope to see you soon!!

    I love you ~ Megan

    Comment by Megan Sprott — November 16, 2007 @ 1:10 pm
  67. Dear Lindsay,

    You and your family are in my thoughts. Keep that beautiful spirit.

    Hope to meet you one day.

    Comment by mary nell — November 18, 2007 @ 7:15 pm
  68. Lindsay,

    Well I would have never imagined that I would be writing you a message under these circumstances. When I read the article about what happened, I was truly in shock and speechless. I can only begin to imagine the ordeal that you and your family have been through in the recent months. It is truly heartbreaking to see something like this happen to someone you were really close to in the past. I want you to know that you are in my thoughts quite often and will continue to be. The fact that we have not spoken with each other for a few years does not take away from the fact that I will always hope for the best for you and will continue to care. Even in these extreme circumstances, I still remain positive that you will make a recovery and begin to start living your life as it should be lived. I have no doubt that you have the attitude and the strength to get through this. I am glad to hear about all of the positive things your community and friends are doing for you. You have a lot of people supporting you. After the road to recovery is over, you will continue to serve as an inspiration to many others especially those that might be going through a similar situation. I also hope that the rest of your family is doing well. Anyways I just wanted to know that I have you in my thoughts.

    Tim C.

    Comment by Tim Calvin — November 20, 2007 @ 3:41 pm
  69. Lindsay~
    The most beautiful thing about you has always been who you are, and I’m so grateful that this tragedy hasn’t changed that. Your ability to stay true to yourself and grow from your experiences makes you incredibly special. I’m inspired by your dignity and strength; you’re going to make an unbelievable teacher. I keep you in my thoughts and look forward to more times together soon.

    Love Always,
    Kim

    Comment by Kim — November 22, 2007 @ 12:22 pm
  70. Hi Lindsay,
    This is the old bald guy that used to see you at Three Monkeys every Saturday. I can’t believe such an awful thing could happen to such a wonderful young woman. I hope you’re managing to adjust. I don’t know if they’re allowing you visitors yet, but I’ll try to come by and see you sometime. Good luck, Sweetie.

    Comment by Tim Robinson — November 29, 2007 @ 11:30 am
  71. Lindsay,

    Although I have never met you, I have been praying for you since I heard your story. Our mutual friend Mike Cullather was wearing the purple bracelet in your support out one night & I asked who Lindsay was. While he was telling me about you and your struggles my heart sank, but Mike assured me your lively spirit and “never gonna give up” attitude will see you through.

    I will continue to pray for you, your family & friends. Your outlook on life is amazing! You go girl!

    Praying for you,
    Patrice

    Comment by Patrice St. Romain — November 29, 2007 @ 4:45 pm
  72. Lindsay and family. I have a Master’s in Rehabilitation Counseling and have been counseling for over 35 years. But I’m hoping I can help in even another way. I’ve also been building computers for nearly 20 years. Perhaps I can help you put a specialized computer system together that will be useful long before conventional stuff. For example - Logitech just came out with the Air Mouse - it works up to 30 feet from a computer - and controls almost everything - just by holding it in the air and tilting it this way or that. I realize even “holding” is a difficult concept now - but as some kind of workaround or prosthetics become an option - this mouse may make a dramatic difference. And there are headsets out there with built in monitors where you tilt your head to issue commands.

    I would look forward to an opportunity to encourage you in any way possible. Keep me in mind. You can call me at 804-739-2325. Thanks! Dave Talbott

    Comment by Dave Talbott — December 1, 2007 @ 4:47 am
  73. Hi Lindsay, it’s Aunt Pattie. I’ve just finished reading all of your wonderful notes. I am not surprised in the least to hear all of the good things people are saying…you are one of the sweetest and kindest young women I have ever known..to that I can attest. I have a special affinity for you because of your goodness. I am so happy you are surrounded by such love, kindness and support and hope to be able to see you very soon. You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday.

    Comment by Aunt Pattie — December 2, 2007 @ 11:32 pm
  74. Hey sweetie!
    I am so happy to hear you are going to Baltimore. I wish you luck there and I am continuing to pray everyday for you. You are always in my thoughts. Even though I haven’t had a chance to see you in Richmond, if you need anything let me know!
    love ya:)

    Comment by Amber Pinigis — December 7, 2007 @ 11:52 am
  75. Hey Lins,
    I was SOOO happy to hear from you the other day! It brought back so many memories from the old days back in san antonio…everytime i hear sublime or the fugees i think about riding around in your old little blue car…gosh we thought we were so cool back then!! ha and for some reason I was remembering that one night that you me and audrey went and played in the big field that was filled with water from the rain..ha! we dared audrey and she darted for that fence when a car came..lol
    well you know you are always in my thoughts and prayers and i cant wait to come visit you in a few months!
    love ya lots! miss you!!
    ~AMY~

    Comment by amy — December 7, 2007 @ 2:00 pm
  76. Beautiful girl,

    I just want you to know that I will be thinking of you all day today. I know that you have been waiting for this day for what seems like forever, but this means you are one step closer to coming home. Everyone is so proud of you! You can make a believer out of anyone, and I know you’ll be such a positive influence on everyone you meet. Hurry Home!

    love always,
    Kim

    Comment by Kim — December 10, 2007 @ 10:07 am
  77. Hi Lindsay.
    It was sooo good to see you on Sunday. I was so happy to see your smile and hear your voice. Kyli has been doing everything in her power to keep all of us VCU kids informed of your progress. I will get up to Baltimore soon and check in on you. Let me know if you need or want anything that is unavailable at Hopkin’s.
    See you soon Lindsay,

    Jeff

    Comment by Jeff Gluchowski — December 11, 2007 @ 3:50 pm
  78. Lindsay,
    Wow, I am so happy to hear you are moving to Baltimore. Even though I am on the West Coast I am still checking your site every week to see any updated progress. I know with your strength you will do great in Baltimore. You have a lot ahead of you and without a doubt in my mind you will accomplish every challenge given. I love you Lindsay and think about you all the time.
    Love,
    Lauren

    Comment by Lauren Lownsbery — December 13, 2007 @ 8:14 pm
  79. Hey Lindsay!
    So, I talk to Dan every time he comes into the Monkey and he always has so many great things to tell me about you, your progress, your amazing spirit, and he always lets me read through his poems to you too. I’ve tried arranging getting a ride out with him to see you but our times don’t always match up. I really just wanted to tell you that I think about you often, how you’re doing, and wishing you the best in my prayers. I hope to see you again soon, Dan says if I don’t get him lost, (haha)he’ll ride me up to Hopkins. Take care!
    Much love,
    Danielle

    Comment by Danielle Stulman — December 13, 2007 @ 11:58 pm
  80. Hi LIndsay
    I am Amber Pinigis’ older sister. I live in Boston. I was on her facebook and here was your website. I just wanted to let you know that not only am I praying for you but my friends and family up here are too. You are a brave young lady and with support and love from all over the world you can make it through anything. God Bless you and your family!!!!!!!!!!!LUv Mary Beth

    Comment by Mary — December 14, 2007 @ 7:26 am
  81. Lindsay:

    I’m a friend of Kim Giammaria. She’s been telling me about you for the longest time. I don’t think you need to be told this over and over by now, but there are scores of people who have never met you and yet think about you every day.

    Especially now, during the holiday season, I keep you and your family in my thoughts.

    Kim has reinforced to me your great sense of character and spirit. So I know that all will be alright. It won’t be easy-in fact, it’s going to be harder than anything we mere mortals have to deal with, but I have great faith in you!

    I wish you and your family the best and a happy holidays to all.

    Hang in there, Lu!

    Matt Mendelsohn
    Arlington, VA

    Comment by Matt Mendelsohn — December 16, 2007 @ 12:22 pm
  82. Hey Lindsay,

    This is Ashley (the one who used to work at tripps with Kevin)
    I’m sorry we havent been keeping in touch, and unfortunatelly i have only recently heard about what happened to you. I just wanted to tell you that you are beautiful and one of the most amazing people I have ever met. I am not worried about you making it through this, because you know you are strong enough.
    Also, I am so excited for you and Kevin! You guys belong together! I always knew that..
    I am keeping you in my prayers. If you need anything at all, you and Kevin can call anytime…Make sure you keep in touch.
    LOVE ASHLEY

    Comment by Ashley — December 17, 2007 @ 5:52 pm
  83. We don’t know each other but I always check your site to see how you are doing and the progress that you are making. You are in my thoughts and prayers and know just by seeing the support you have and the strength you carry, everything will get better.

    Comment by Breeze — December 18, 2007 @ 10:38 am
  84. Dear Lindsay,

    I have written to you before. I am a very good friend of Kim’s and she has told me about you. I check your site frequently and I pray daily for you, dear Lindsay and your Mom, Judith and now your Grandmother too. We sure don’t understand God’s plans and we sure don’t have to like them all but… we must believe that He alone knows the MASTER plan and that all WILL BE WELL. My heart is heavy for you, Lindsay, but I believe that God is in control and loves you dearly and has an awesome plan to fullfill in YOU. Know that you are loved by many ~ even people like me who you don’t know.

    God Bless You, Lindsay,

    Juli

    Comment by Juli Benson — December 22, 2007 @ 7:20 pm
  85. Hello my love,
    I just want you to know how mush I love you and that I think about you everyday! I am so proud to wear my “Love of Lindsay” t-shirt and inform others about one of my most beautiful friends. I plan on making a trip to see you in B-more, hopefully before next semester starts. I love you and have a Very Merry Christmas (and Hanukah)!

    All my love,
    Bridget!

    Comment by Bridget Fitzpatrick — December 24, 2007 @ 9:29 am
  86. Lindsay~

    Merry Christmas to you and your family!! I love you soo much and I hope to see you soon.

    Love Always,
    Kim

    Comment by Kim — December 25, 2007 @ 8:21 am
  87. Hi Lindsay,

    I moved out of state after I graduated from college and I’m so upset that we lost touch. Yesterday, I was in Richmond and spoke to Mckinsey. I just found out for the first time what has happened. I want you to know that you are in my prayers and I will always think of you as a wonderful friend. We had such great memories…from watching the Spurs win the championship a few years back to eating pho :) You are so beautiful and I miss you so much. I know everything will be alright and look forward to the next time we meet. Love you Lin-Z!!!!!

    -Patti

    Comment by Patti Vongmalaithong — December 29, 2007 @ 6:48 pm
  88. Hi Lindsay,

    I wrote this last week but somehow it didn’t post. I moved out of state after college graduation and I’m so upset that we lost touch.

    I was visiting Richmond last week and I heard for the first time about what has happened through Mckinsey. I want you to know that I’m thinking about you and my prayers are with you.

    I have so many great memories of us…from watching the Spurs win their championship a few years back to going to our favorite pho place :) You are such a beautiful person inside and out and I miss you so much. I know that everything will be alright and I can’t wait until the next time we meet. You can call me anytime (804-399-3977). I love you Lin-Z!!!

    -Patti

    Comment by patti vongmalaithong — December 31, 2007 @ 8:13 am
  89. So after I posted my last comment, the initial one showed up but that’s how much I want you to know that I’m thinking of you :)

    Comment by patti vongmalaithong — December 31, 2007 @ 8:17 am
  90. Lindsay-Lu
    Just thinking of you, as always and wishing that things could be easier. You are destined for great things. it will take work–lot’s of hard work, but with your spirit and determination, I know that it is possible. Your beauty comes from within–others see it, sometimes it is difficult to see it yourself. Stay strong and loving. I look forward to seeing your sweet smile in a few weeks.

    Love,
    Aunt Donna

    Comment by Aunt Donna — January 4, 2008 @ 3:32 pm
  91. Hey girl,

    I wrote you a letter and sent it off today, hopefully I sent it to the right address. Just wanted to let you know so if you don’t receive it, you will at least know I’m still around!

    Shelley

    Comment by Shells — January 7, 2008 @ 4:53 pm
  92. Lindsay! I’ve written before. I just noticed that you do not have a functioning computer. Call me at 739-2325. Any computers you have - if they can be fixed, I’ll fix them - no charge.

    Dave Talbott

    Comment by Dave Talbott — January 7, 2008 @ 5:39 pm
  93. Just want you to know that I’m thinking of you. Glad to hear you are doing better and I hope your holidays were great! xoxox

    Comment by Lauren Neal — January 9, 2008 @ 6:30 pm
  94. Hi Lindsay!
    Still praying for you daily(”Duke”Dan),as well. I wrote an email to Mehs,with the info. of my friends in Athens,Ala.,for you,I trust he gave it to you-as I never heard back.Continued Godspeed,and look forward(along with Duke)of seeing you,soon.Thanks for the last visit-you bless us-keep shining!

    Comment by Neil and Duke — January 10, 2008 @ 11:59 am
  95. Hi Lindsay!
    Kyli has been keeping me updated and I’m so glad to hear that things are moving along. There hasn’t been a day that has passed that I don’t think about you! I really look forward to seeing you soon and I know how strong you are and know that you can do this!
    Love You!
    Dee

    Comment by Dee — January 11, 2008 @ 1:44 pm
  96. Hi Lindsay,
    You don’t know me, but I have followed your story in the news. In August of 2006, my husband had surgery at Johns Hopkins and like your surgery, it didn’t turn out as expected. His aorta ruptured during surgery and after 16 long hours in the operating room, he survived. While in intensive care, he developed compartment syndrome in both of his legs which led to them being amputated one week later. Like you, he was very sick for weeks, but his life is back on track and going well now. We live in Midlothian and would love to meet you if you would like some support. Robert is walking and just started driving. We have been through many frustrating issues and we would love to help you in anyway. We are now active with the American Coalition of Amputees and we are working hard to pass a Bill in Virginia that would mandate insurance companies allow patients get the prosethics that doctors recommend not based on the cost. Robert needs C-Legs that Anthem will not pay a dime for. Please contact Robert or me if you wish.

    Comment by Lisa Riiber — January 12, 2008 @ 6:22 pm
  97. Hi Lindsay! My name is Nadine and I am a friend of kim and the Giammaria Family. I am new to the area and to my friendship with Kim. Kim and I daily have conversations about you and what has happened. My friends and I always say , “We make plans, then God laughs!!!!” Life never turns out expectadly, but I hope you are strong (and from what I have heard you are!!!) to believe that all will be fine!!! I would love to one day meet you and hold your hand and tell you how special you really are!!! I also am obsessed with fashion so…. Well, keep your chin up grasshopper and believe …. Love, Nadine

    Comment by Nadine Naskoviak — January 14, 2008 @ 8:25 pm
  98. Dear Lindsay,

    I graduated from VCU with your Aunt Donna and I know your mother as well. I have not seen either of them for 20 years. Donna and I were going to meet in Texas recently when you became ill.

    I discovered this site and read about your circumstances. I do not possess the words to express how deeply this touched me.

    I wish you strength in your recovery and as you move into the next chapter of your life.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Warmest regards and best wishes,
    Frank

    Comment by Frank Cale — January 16, 2008 @ 8:39 am
  99. Hey superstar!

    I miss you! I’m coming to visit for the fundraiser and homecoming. I hope I’ll get to see you this time. I have some gifts for you :) keep fighting, stay strong, and SMILE!!!

    Comment by Rachel — January 19, 2008 @ 6:29 pm
  100. ok well I was being nosy and looking at what others wrote.
    …YOU’RE MOVING TO B-MORE?????
    yay! What part? don’t forget I’m only a lil bit away

    MISS YOU. SEE YA SOON!

    Comment by Rachel — January 19, 2008 @ 6:34 pm
  101. Hi Lindsay,

    This is Steve, I used to spend a lot of time at Baileys when you were a server there and I attended a birthday party for you at Europa a few years back, your 21st if I remember correctly. It was always nice to come in to Baileys and see that you were working, you made the place more fun just being there. . and your smile and good spirit were contagious. It was only a few days ago that I heard about your situation and what you have been going through the past several months. I want you to know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers ever since. It was just today that I was able to see your website and read all of the comments from everyone that loves you and is pulling for you. It sounds like you’re really being a fighter in all this and have the right attitude, and that alone is such an inspiration to so many. I want you to know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers daily, and I will be checking for updates often.
    I can’t wait to hear of all the progress you’re making in your rehab:)
    I still live in the Forest Hill area so if you need anything don’t hesitate to call me @ 804-647-3241, and when you’re up for visitors let me know. . it will be great to see your smile again.
    Keep your head up, keep fighting and God Bless You, Lindsay

    Steve

    Comment by steve pugh — January 24, 2008 @ 10:47 pm
  102. Hi Lindsay :) I have been following your progress and want you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry this happened and I pray that God gives you strength everyday. You are a beautiful young woman and a true fighter. God Bless You.

    Comment by Crystal — January 28, 2008 @ 11:33 am
  103. Hi Lindsay -
    You may not remember me - we went to middle school together - but I saw your group on facebook and instantly recognized you - you always had a striking smile on your face. We haven’t talked in years, but you were always such a strong person and I just wanted to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I know you have a ton of love and support around you and that is a great gift to have. God bless you.
    Love,
    Brittany

    Comment by Brittany Fish — January 29, 2008 @ 2:36 pm
  104. Whats up Linds, long time no talk. I know i have been following you through this whole process. My family & I prayed about this situation and for you and thank God you are a strong woman. You got through the hard part, now I know there will be nothing but good things to come your way. Mimi and I can’t wait to see you on Friday and get some new art in your honor.

    dmh

    Comment by Derrek Harris — January 30, 2008 @ 3:54 am
  105. Hey Girly

    Just wanted to say hi and that I’ll definetly be at the Postcards for Lindsay event tommorow and hope to see you there. If you ever need anyone to talk to or just hang out and relax just let me know. You’re the most beautiful person I know inside & out and don’t you forget that.

    Comment by janet — January 30, 2008 @ 3:12 pm
  106. Hey Lins… I’m so sorry I have done such a poor job of keeping in touch. I am the world’s worst at that… I hope your rehabilitation is going great. Kelley and I wish you the best and continue to keep you in our prayers. I hope to see you soon!

    -Paul

    Comment by Paul Hartsoe — February 1, 2008 @ 11:38 am
  107. Hey girly! I’m comin’ in from Va. Beach today to be there in time for the art show. I can’t wait to see you and Kyli and have some girl time. See ya tonight punkin! Love ya, Mwaaah!
    V

    Comment by Vanessa Hirsch — February 1, 2008 @ 11:52 am
  108. Lindsay,
    It was great to see you Friday night, constantly surrounded by a lot of friends, smiling and having a good time. I had no doubt that the event would be a success; nevertheless, it was wonderful to see how packed it was all night long. I am praying and believing that you will receive the support you need. There are many people, including myself, who are willing to do anything for you. Stay strong, have faith, and all else will follow.
    Sincerely,
    Lindsey

    Comment by Lindsey Barr — February 3, 2008 @ 11:22 am
  109. Hey Lindsay,
    It’s Steve again, your old friend from Bailey’s. I just wanted to tell you that it was great seeing you on Friday at the art exhibit. . .and it was nice to meet your Mom and several of your close friends. I’m so glad I got a chance to talk to you and see you among so many people that love and care about you. . .and just as before, your smile still lights up the entire room. In addition to a nice picture, I bought one of your purple bracelets, which I have yet to take off and have no intention of doing so. I want you to know that I think about you every day and I’m telling everyone I can about your next fundraiser in March. In the meantime, keep getting stronger and healing in every way. .and if you or your Mom need anything, I would be more than glad to help. I’ll plan on seeing you next month at the Canal Club.

    Steve

    Comment by steve pugh — February 4, 2008 @ 7:15 pm
  110. Hey Lindsay,
    I used to work with you at Legend. I just wanted to say that I am in shock that all of this has happened to such a beautiful, high-spirited, loving person and you are in my family’s thoughts and prayers everyday. I always admired you and I know that you are strong and will prevail through all the hard times, especially with all the support from friends, family and strangers. I’m glad to see you are back home in Richmond also. We are thinking of you often.

    Lindsay

    Comment by Lindsay Zema — February 6, 2008 @ 7:53 am
  111. Hey Linds,
    I just wanted to say hello. It was great to hear that the art show went awesome!! Lindsey told (after the fact)about it. :) My mom and I pray for you often. Please contact me if there is anything I can do to help. I love you Linds.

    Love,
    Camillia

    Comment by Camillia Heade — February 6, 2008 @ 2:22 pm
  112. Hi Lindsay,
    We think of you often and hope you are doing well. Glad to hear that you are working with prosthetics, hope that makes things easier for you. Hi to Mom and grandmom and the rest of the crew too. Hope everybody is taking care of each other.
    Fondly,
    The staff of 2 east

    Comment by The staff from Good Samaritan Hospital, Baltimore, MD — February 7, 2008 @ 8:43 am
  113. Hey Lindsay,

    I’m so glad to hear that you are out of the hospital and starting to get adjusted! I hope your recovery is going well, stay strong cuz you are!! I would like to get together with you soon, I think I may be going out of town the same day as the concert…but I would love to see you!! It needs to happen soon because I’m moving to Atlanta!

    Email me if you can or have your mom talk to me on facebook…nelsonjm@vcu.edu

    Love ya!
    Jess Nelson

    Comment by Jessica Nelson — February 7, 2008 @ 7:49 pm
  114. Hi Lindsay,
    My name is Michele Musacchio I work in the OR as an Anesthesia Tech at Henrico Doctors Hospital. I was there for mostly all of your surgeries and i just wanted to let you know how you touched my heart. Im 24 years old so i felt i understood a little bit better then the older nurses that worked there. Im one of the youngest people working down in the OR and I cant imagine what your going through. You have been so brave through all of this and you have been an inspiration to everyone that works in the hospital. My family is in NY and my entire church family in NY has been praying for you since the day i heard your story. I am friends with Allison, the sec. in NVICU and she has kept me updated in your progress. I just wanted to let you know that people as far as upstate NY care about you and hope you get well. You continue to be in my prayers daily.

    Michele

    Comment by Michele Musacchio — February 7, 2008 @ 8:02 pm
  115. Hey Linds,
    I was so glad to hear that you pulled through all your surgeries and you are in my thoughts and prayers every day! I found out today that two of my sorority sisters were killed in a fatal car accident on their way back to statesboro, and one is in critical condition in the hospital.. and all i could think about was how lucky we are to still have you here with us and how strong you are to have pulled through everything you’ve had to go through. My friends won’t live to see tomorrow, they’re not getting a second chance, but you have your whole life ahead of you and i hope that you can see the light through all of this and i hope that you embrace the life you have and love surrounding you! I hope that each day you grow stronger, and i hope you know how many people love you. I know we haven’t spent much time together over the years, but we are family, and we stick together. I love you so much and hopefully i can visit you soon! Stay strong, we’re all pullin for ya! Keep in touch.

    Comment by Allie Aronson — February 10, 2008 @ 10:26 pm
  116. Hi Lindsay-Lu
    Just wanted to let you know how much I think of you and love you every day. I just checked back on the site to see the update and read about the next benefit. I know you will have a great week-end for Valentine’s Day. Stay strong, beautiful, and loving. Grandma and I talk about you every day. Keep working hard.
    Love, Aunt Donna

    Comment by Aunt Donna — February 13, 2008 @ 3:23 pm
  117. Just wanted to say Hi and Happy Valentine’s Day! I heard you’re getting over the flu so I hope your feeling ok and have a wonderful Valentines Day, my thoughts of love are with you.

    Janet

    Comment by janet — February 14, 2008 @ 8:57 am
  118. Hey! I hope that your road to recovery is going well. I think about you often. I sought information on voice activated computers after reading the last posting and finally got a reply back today. I was told that there is not currently any technology which will turn on a computer from a powered down state, but Dragon NaturallySpeaking software will do just about anything else you are looking to do. Check out the website - http://www.nuance.com/naturallyspeaking/ and let me know if this is what you want. If it is, I would be glad to get it for you.

    Comment by Lindsey Barr — February 18, 2008 @ 11:24 am
  119. xo

    Comment by kim — February 20, 2008 @ 9:07 pm
  120. i just happened to be viewing 12 about town & wanted to know what “postcards for lindsay” was. i am so glad that i clicked to view. very powerful. i have family in all of the u.s & have sent your website to all of them to encourage them to help out your family in every way possible. any amount counts, im sure. you are very strong, i do not know you, but you touched my heart in so many ways.esp as a mother. best of wishes & thoughts & PRAYERS are with you. ; )

    Comment by Samantha — February 23, 2008 @ 7:36 am
  121. Hey Lindsay,
    I just wanted to let you know I was thinking about you. I hope you’re getting stronger and feeling better. I was out last night and ran into someone who also used to work at Bailey’s and I told her and her friend about you and your benefit coming up March 9(they noticed my purple bracelet). They and I will definitely be there. I’ll be relocating to Va Beach next weekend but I’m coming back for the benefit. I’m sure it will be a huge success. Hope to see you then.

    Comment by steve pugh — February 23, 2008 @ 5:11 pm
  122. Hi Lindsay,

    You don’t know me but I am good friends of Kim G. I pray for you everyday and send my love to you. You are SO beautiful and I feel like I know you. I wish I did. You are an inspiration. Please know that even those that you don’t know care about you deeply and send love and prayers.

    Jul Benson

    Comment by Jul Benson — February 25, 2008 @ 7:05 am
  123. Can’t wait to come to Richmond this Sunday for the concert, hope I see you there!

    XOXO,
    Ashley

    Comment by Ashley Jones — March 4, 2008 @ 7:43 am
  124. Hi Lindsay!
    I just saw your interview with Mark Holmberg online and you are truly amazing and have deeply inspired me. I am constantly checking your site for updated progress and always thinking about you. Love You, Lauren

    Comment by Lauren Lownsbery — March 7, 2008 @ 5:17 pm
  125. Hey Lindsay,
    Just wanted to say HI and tell you that I had great time at the benefit on Sunday. It was nice to sit down and chat with you for a while. You looked like you were having an awesome time as well as everyone there. Our conversation reminded me of what an awesome person you are, always thinking and caring about everyone else. You rock, Lindsay! I wish you continued success in your rehab and I’ll be looking for updates on the next fundraiser you were talking about. Call me if you’re ever down at the beach or whenever you feel like it.
    FYI- 804 647 3241

    Steve

    Comment by steve pugh — March 12, 2008 @ 11:29 am
  126. Hey Lou….it was wonderful seeing you this weekend.
    I am so happy that so many of your lovely friends came, isn’t it an amazing thing what being with your true friends can do for you. I just love you so much and I am truly moved and inspired by your strength. I love seeing you and Mehs together, he loves you so much.
    Hopefully I will get back down sooner rather than later….
    Love Always,
    Kim

    Comment by kim — March 13, 2008 @ 9:35 am
  127. I tried for a while to think of what I could say, but nothing can really catch what I want to tell you.

    Although we’ve never met, please know that you are in my thoughts very often, and I hope you are doing well.

    Walter

    Comment by Walter — March 17, 2008 @ 6:14 pm
  128. HI Lindsay Lu
    Grandma and I were so happy to hear that the myoelectric arms were approved. That will make life easier. Keep up the hard work that I know you are doing. Your strength amazes everyone.
    All my love, Aunt Donna

    Comment by Aunt Donna — March 18, 2008 @ 11:04 am
  129. Lindsay~

    You are such an amazing woman! Thank you for being such an inspiration to people everywhere, especially those of us battling Crohn’s disease.

    God Bless You Always Girl~
    Michaele

    Comment by Michaele — March 19, 2008 @ 9:49 pm
  130. Lindsay,
    We have been praying for you and following your progress through your website. God is with you, with your family, and will continue to give you the strength and courage you need to continue to heal and grow.
    Chris & Patti Perry

    Comment by Chris & Patti Perry — March 24, 2008 @ 7:56 am
  131. SATURDAY, MARCH 29TH
    HAPPY 25TH BIRTHDAY
    TO MY WONDERFUL LULU!!!!

    Comment by Lu's mom — March 25, 2008 @ 9:07 am
  132. I’m glad to hear that Lindsay survived and by the way, she should be featured on the Maury Povich show in order to talk about her survival story.

    Comment by Justin — March 27, 2008 @ 8:37 am
  133. Hey Lindsay,
    I just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you and I’m keeping an eye out for your next fundraiser. I’m glad to hear your insurance company is coming through for you. Take care and Happy Belated Birthday!! I’ll see you at the next fundraiser.

    Steve

    Comment by steve — April 10, 2008 @ 10:43 am
  134. Lindsay!

    It was so good to see you last week. I hope you are doing well.

    PS–every time I type your name I think in my head “Lindsay with an ‘A’”!! Haha :)

    Jessica

    Comment by Jess Nelson — May 7, 2008 @ 7:28 pm
  135. Every now & then I check yr Website to see how you are doing.
    My son, Franklin has Crohn’s & was just accepted into VCU Biomedical Engineering.
    Your progress is amazing & as the Ozzies say “you are brilliant”.
    My daughter has gone through physical therapy for years with arm & knee
    problems. She went through alot of blood, sweat & tears. I know it is hard work - keep at it.
    A big hug from Norma & kids.

    Comment by Norma — May 9, 2008 @ 8:17 am
  136. Hey Beautiful,
    I just wanted to let you know I still think of you daily. I’ve been following your progress through the web and you have come such a long way. I hope to see you sometime soon.

    Love Always,
    Kim

    Comment by Kim — May 11, 2008 @ 3:49 pm
  137. Hey Linds

    I hope you can make it out to my grad party on Saturday. I emailed your mom the info but I’m not sure if she got it. Call me and let me know!
    804.512.8497

    Love

    Jess Nelson

    Comment by Jessica — May 15, 2008 @ 12:45 pm
  138. Bless your heart. I just read, again, about your story in the Richmond Times Dispatch. I have followed your progress and want you to know I am rooting for you. I do not know you at all, but you are an inspiration to me and to many people you will never know. Keep fighing Sweetie Pie. You can do this. You are in my heart and my prayers. I am sending you a small check. I will continue to do so. With love, Kathleen Brower

    Comment by Kathleen Brower — May 25, 2008 @ 4:10 am
  139. Linday,
    we both are VCU grads who wish you our best. I was particularly humbled by the article in today’s Richmond Times Dispatch in which you said that you wish you just had a finger because you can do so much with a finger. I am humbled because you ask for so little and I (and many of us) complain if we have a sore finger, splinter, etc.

    We all can learn a lot from you.

    Comment by Jeff and Lynn Legg — May 25, 2008 @ 1:08 pm
  140. I don’t know you nor you me but I am an old lady of 54 compared to you. I can only say you have so much left you can use to fulfill your dreams. If you love fashion, you can still make some parts of it happen. You have your MOUTH and that is your greatest asset anyway. I guess you have one of those computers you can talk into and it writes for you? You need someone who can take your visions into reality. Get an artist and start describing to them what you want to draw and hire a seamstress and let her start sewing. Honey you can do this. You will go far. Have someone take you around to pick out fabrics and set up shop in your home as a tax write-off. There are many lonely people who don’t have a life and would be more than happy to volunteer to make themselves and you feel good. Have you thought about any of this? Once you are successful, you can be an example of what you can and cannot do when faced with adversity. You are so young. The world is yours. God knew you were special. That is why he choose you. Also, if you are feeling ugly or anything, which you are NOT, maybe get in with some guys who are amputees from the war who are about your age and I think that would help boost your self esteem. Who wouldn’t love that? After all, you are all in the same boat. No one can understand you like someone else who is going through the same thing. Why not a line of clothes for someone in your situation? You know, I noticed how you had to pull your slacks up just to put on the legs to strap them on for practice. No young girl likes that. That would be my first project. Maybe put zippers on them which are hidden or something. So many ideas. If I lived near you, I would help. I’m down near Smithfield so I wouldn’t be any help. Also, get into furniture design which is more comfortable, just about everything you can think of which would help. You can do this!! Just put that thinking cap on and go to town. ESS for ESS - pecially for the specially challenged!! Great label. Love to you and blessings to. I will try to keep up with your progress. You make me feel like I should be stronger than I am. I suffer from depression. Don’t wait until you get this age and say, I wish I had. Do it now. Don’t let time slip by. Everyday you wait, is a day you fall behind.

    Comment by Janis Peace — May 25, 2008 @ 11:37 pm
  141. Hi Lindsay!

    I saw your article in the RTD….what an awesome piece. Front page!! You go girl :)

    I’m leaving for Atlanta on Saturday and would love to see you beforehand. I don’t have your number anymore so hopefully you will get this and give me a call so I can come over and visit. Let me know!

    Love

    Jess
    804-512-8497

    Comment by Jess Nelson — May 27, 2008 @ 6:11 am
  142. Hi Lindsay,

    I’m a friend of Kim, and have been following your story, and sending prayers your way since you first got sick. I read the RTD article, and was thrilled to learn how far you have come. Although I have never met you, I think of you often and contact Kim for updates. Please know that there are still legions of people out there, who have never met you, but are following your story and rooting for you!

    Julie

    Comment by Julie Leslie — May 31, 2008 @ 7:17 am
  143. Lindsay,
    You are an absolutely amazing young woman! You can do anything you put your mind to! After all, if God is for us (and He is!) - who can be against us? Keep up the good work!
    Love and hugs,
    Brenda

    Comment by Brenda Atkins — June 3, 2008 @ 8:34 am
  144. Lindsay Lu: I met you today while you visited The Times-Dispatch newsroom. You are a beautiful woman. I gave you the rock. Remember to fly high like eagles. I want to see you soar.

    Comment by Mary Goodwyn — June 4, 2008 @ 1:06 pm
  145. Hi Lindsay!

    It was great seeing you again this afternoon. Like I told you then, you’ve got to be the bravest person I’ve ever seen in my life. Glad to see you’re getting out and about. I’m sure I’ll run into you again soon just like I used to when you lived around the corner from me.

    Best, Keith

    Comment by Keith Preston — June 5, 2008 @ 2:40 pm
  146. Hello Lindsay,

    We have never met but I have read all about you. First and foremost, God bless you! I go to a small church in the fan(Commonwealth Chapel), and one of our core values is to do outreach work in the Richmond community.

    What I would like to do is bring a group of “workers” to you and your mom for the day, to do chores, weed, mow, plant, fix things, whatever your mom needs. We’ll be your mom’s slaves for the day. You can email me at matt.garrison@verizon.net or call me at 804.339.8033. I hope to hear from you soon.

    Matt Garrison

    Comment by Matt Garrison — June 7, 2008 @ 6:55 pm
  147. Lindsay~
    Just wanted you to know I’m thinking of you.
    Call me!!!!!
    XO
    Kim

    Comment by Kim — June 17, 2008 @ 7:54 am
  148. Hey Lindsay!

    How are things going up there in RIC? I’m in Atlanta and it is AWESOME….you would love it!! My new job is amazing! We do a lot of fund raisers for different charities and such around the office so I’m going to bring you RTD article to one of the people in charge…I’ll keep you posted!!

    Take care

    Love
    Jess

    Comment by Jessica Nelson — June 26, 2008 @ 4:46 am
  149. Hello Lindsay. I had the honor of meeting you today at Hanger. I took time to read about you and find that you are one of the most remarkable people I have met. I was taken back by your smile and beauty. I wish you the best of luck with your prosthetics and glad Kay will be there to aid you. If you need anyone to talk to or just want to say ,I will try to be there for you. Hope to see you again soon ,and will be saving a hug just for you. Garland Creasey ,,LAE (left above elbow) amp.

    Comment by creasey — June 26, 2008 @ 6:26 pm

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